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§ Love Positions §

Enhancing your sex life

The areas and intensity of sexual stimulation vary depending on the position. The sensations resulting from such stimulation are also similar. Using various positions comfortably signifies a richness in sexual life, which is very important in married life. Unlike animals that mate solely for reproduction, humans use it more as a way to express love.

 

The pleasure of sexual intercourse largely depends on the physical and mental state and movements. Like everything else in human life, continuous and repetitive actions without proper variation do not bring pleasure. In this regard, the following introduced positions may be considered common positions. Because the positions during sexual activity can be the best positions if two people enjoy love and develop their own good positions together to enjoy them, then those positions are truly the best.

 

Normal position

This is the most common and basic position. This position allows both partners to hold each other freely and contact the largest areas of their bodies, making it good. However, when the man’s weight is supported by the woman, especially during pregnancy, it can exert heavy external pressure on the uterus, which may be dangerous.

 

The woman lies flat with her knees slightly bent and her legs apart. The man supports his body with his elbows and knees, positioning himself over the woman's body without putting weight on her. The man's legs are placed between the woman's legs.

 

▣ Anterior displacement

After inserting the woman on top, she brings her legs together and bends her knees. This causes the man's legs to surround the woman's thighs. When the woman straightens her legs, the vaginal opening becomes narrower, and the penis experiences pressure as it enters the vagina, which provides a fuller sensation and is more stimulating than the missionary position.

 

In other words, the male's penis is pressed against the pubic bone of the woman, which is curved like a bow, and friction is generated between the labia majora and the inner thighs of the woman, resulting in very strong stimulation. Additionally, the woman experiences increased stimulation of the clitoris due to significant friction from the dorsal side of the penis, enhancing the effects on the vulva and vaginal opening.

 

However, this position is effective in keeping semen inside the vagina, but it is not effective in allowing semen to enter the uterus. This is because the penis cannot penetrate deeply, and the vaginal fornix is located below the upper part of the vagina.

 

Curvature top

남성 상위에서 여성이 두 다리를 높이 올리고 남성은 무릎을 바닥에 대고 남성의 손으로 여성의 엉덩이를 조금 들은 상태에서 여성의 다리와 몸을 한꺼번에 감싸고 성교하는 체위입니다. 이는 여성의 질입구가 윗쪽을 바라보게 외어서 페니스의 삽입에 좋은 각도가 유지되며 여성의 다리 및 질 입구가 충분히 이완되어 페니스가 쉽게 들어갈 수 있습니다. 이의 변형으로 한쪽 다리만 올리기도 합니다.

 

It is generally said to be the most suitable position for conception. However, excessive bending positions cause discomfort for both men and women, and the upper bodies become separated, resulting in a loss of intimacy.

 

▣ Riding posture (mounted position)

It refers to a sexual position where the person on top, either female or male, is seated and engaged in sexual activity, resembling riding a horse, hence called "riding position." However, some women cannot assume this position due to anatomical reasons, such as a relatively shallow and less elastic vagina that is prone to injury. Additionally, kissing and hugging are impossible, creating psychological distance. Men are driven by desire, and when women are tired, it is difficult to engage in this position. Furthermore, it is advisable to avoid this position during pregnancy.

 

The reason for preferring the missionary position is that the penis is inserted deeply into the vagina, causing the glans to come into close contact with the cervical canal and transmitting movement to the cervix, which also results in friction at the penile glans. Because of this, a powerful stimulation is experienced that cannot be felt in other positions. The woman's movements involve forward, backward, and side-to-side motions, as well as circular movements like grinding the pelvis, which produce a unique nuance of stimulation. In particular, the latter movement provides men with the greatest pleasure.

 

▣ Supine position

This describes a sexual position where a woman sits on a man's lap, wrapping her legs around his hips, and they are embracing each other during intercourse. In this position, the man may also sit with his knees bent. If they lie down while still embracing each other, it becomes the missionary position; if only the man lies down, it becomes the cowgirl position.

 

When adopting this posture, a woman's genitals become wider and more exposed, allowing the pelvis to move freely, which results in the penis being inserted more forcefully depending on the woman's movements. Therefore, it is possible to apply elastic stimulation to the clitoral area.

 

▣ Positioning

A position where partners lie on their sides facing each other during intercourse, with both taking the same posture. It is advisable when the woman's abdomen is swollen due to pregnancy, to avoid pressing the belly and to prevent the penis from going in too deeply. However, since the genital connection is weak and it is difficult to maintain the penis deeply inserted into the vagina, both partners should coordinate appropriately to ensure the vagina holds the penis well.

 

Depending on the situation, a woman may lift her leg slightly and insert a man's leg between hers to engage in sexual intercourse. Men and women can also enjoy by placing one leg between each other's legs.

 

Lateral recumbent position

A Roman poet once said, "There are a thousand ways to have sex. But the simplest and least tiring method is for the woman to lie on her right side and sleep halfway."

 

It is a position where the person is not fully lying on their side but only partially turned, which can be considered a middle form between the supine position, where the male or female is on top, and the lateral position. The person underneath is lying at an angle, looking somewhat forward, while the person on top is partially turned to the side.

 

In this position, with the genitals joined, the person on top lifts the bottom person's upper thigh and presses it against their side while pulling and pressing their bodies close together. At the same time, by slipping one of their thighs between the other person's thighs, the contact surface of the genitals, surrounding areas, and many parts of the upper and lower body increases, making the bodies cling more closely and enhancing intimacy.

 

▣ Supine position

It can be described as a type of male rear position where the woman lies on her side, with her back embraced by the man, while the man approaches from behind the woman.

 

This position makes it easy for the man to kiss and caress the woman's neck and shoulders, and allows the man to hold the woman in his arms, enabling various actions and providing a good sense of physical contact. However, it can be considered a passive position for the woman, who mainly feels and receives. Since penetration alone provides limited stimulation to the woman's erogenous zones, it is also good for the man to caress the woman's breasts and clitoris with his hands after insertion.

 

▣ Female dominance

It is a form in which women take an active stance, initiate sexual activity, and play a leading role. They can feel love and satisfaction by giving affection to men, similar to how a mother shows affection to her son. Sometimes, men also want to be kissed and caressed by women like children, unconsciously feeling a good sense of being conquered by the woman they love.

 

Women wish not only for themselves but also for men to start more actively, participate, and become somewhat more controlling, and men may also feel less sexual interest with conservative methods and seek to explore various other positions.

 

Most of the variations that can be done in the male top position can also be performed in the female top position. The woman spreads her legs over the lying man, aligns her vagina with his erect penis, ensuring the penis enters her vagina, while embracing the man and engaging in sexual activity.

 

In this position, unlike when lying down, it is satisfying to visually observe or fondle the woman's breasts and hips, which become more prominent. Additionally, the man, who has always been in control, becomes more excited and pleased by watching the woman's actions.

 

▣ Male posterior position

This position, resembling animal mating behavior, involves the woman kneeling and lying face down, while the man embraces her waist, leaning her back or pressing her chest against her back.

 

At this time, women should adjust their pelvic tilt by straightening or bending their waist, and they may feel physically comfortable by placing a pillow under their elbows or resting their forehead on a pillow.