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Talking to my wife on the phone stresses me out😡

I sent the older child to school and came back home~

Today, my eldest and youngest children are not feeling well, so I will be there at 4 PM.

They said to see an ENT specialist, so I'm going to make an appointment later.

I did~ Today, there's an office gathering, so I said I would leave the car and go.

He snaps at me, asking how much I plan to drink and why I left the car behind.

Is this the first time you're drinking alcohol at a company dinner?

I can nicely tell you to drink in moderation.

I'm feeling a bit upset inside~ I didn't have time to prepare dinner for the kids, so I made Gamjatang.

There's a place offering a discount today only, so I was thinking of buying it, but our kids kept complaining that they eat anywhere, so I just said, "Let's discuss and ask," feeling upset, and I ended the conversation first.

My wife must also feel frustrated, but we don't get along very well.

I came home in that state, and there's a mountain of dishes and laundry 😱😱

Why do I have to do the laundry every day I take a break?? As soon as I got off work yesterday

You should just use the dryer~~~ Oh, you don't want to take it out and fold it, right?? Being busy with work every day, I barely managed to take care of the kids yesterday.

I just took care of the meal and did work from home... It's really frustrating and exhaustingㅠ집사람과 통화하면 스트레스 받아요😡집사람과 통화하면 스트레스 받아요😡

It only needed to be 15 minutes, not 20 minutes, to do the dishes~~~

 

집사람과 통화하면 스트레스 받아요😡

This is the youngest child's room (I'm the one using it). The youngest child's clothes have been thrown on the floor and left there for several days~ What am I supposed to do? 😡 I'm just neglecting it too.

 

Good morning. I'm a little worried that my complaints might upset you.

 

Wishing you a happy and joyful day♡

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    깐데또까
      아내분은 살림은 전혀 안하시는거에요?
     왜 인지니어스님만 하시는 거에요????
     서로 맞벌이 하시는거라 서로 집안일을 나눠서 해야;;;;
     인지니어스님이 전부하시니 버릇이 된것 같기도 해요
     서로 한발짝 두발짝 뒤로 물러 나면서  이쁘게 말해주시면
     더 좋을것 같아요 조용하니  맥주 한잔에 함께 대화를 해보세요 
    
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    희영
    남편분이 빨래도 설거지도 많이 하시니 아내분이ㅣ무신경해지신거 같아요. 속상해하시지만 말고 가끔은 터놓고 얘길해보세요.  아님 설거지하지말고 그냥 놔두시던지요^^
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    인지니어스
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    동료분도 그러더라구요~ 
    뭘 좀 도와주면 점점 그 일이 넘어오고 당연시
    되어 속상하다고 ㅎㅎ 저도 공감해요 !! 점점 더
    그런거 같아요ㅎ 설거지 ㅎ 그냥 놔둘까요?🤔🤔
    ㅎㅎ 제가 먹은 그릇 포크만 씻고? ㅋㅋㅋ
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    희영
    ㅋㅋㅋ 놔두시려면 본인이 드신것도 같이 놔두셔야죠! 일부러 그런게 아니라 바빠서 못하셨다는 제스처와 함께요. 일부러 그러는건 기분나쁘잖아요. 나도 집안일하고 애들 챙기고 바빴다는걸 설거지안하기로 표현해보세요^^
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    깐데또까
     저도 희영님과 같은 마음~ 이에요 
     일부러 그런것 처럼 보이면 아내분이 왠지 더 화내실것 같아요
      바빠서 못하신것처럼~ 해주시는게~ 좋은것 같아요 
  • 은하수
    어머 푸념 나올만 하네요 
    마음의 평화를 찾는 하루되세요
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    땡땡이
    캐시닥에 푸념을 아주 신랄하게 하셨네요
    많이 속상 하셨겠어요
    지금은 좀 기분이 좋아지셨나요
    기분 좋게 하루 마무리 하시면 좋겠네요~~
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    지영도영
    글보고 있으면 언제나 잘하고 계시는것 같은데 또 같이 사는사람은 불만불평이 있군요... 어렵네요