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(Concern) Elder mother struggling to live due to severe shortness of breath

My mother-in-law is quite elderly.

I'm 82 years old this year.. living alone in the countryside..

A few years ago, after a health checkup showed cardiomegaly, a general hospital doctor advised me to go to a large hospital for further examination. Since there is no cardiology department in that area...

So, I have been consistently undergoing check-ups after making a reservation at my place.

After the test... there is no immediate serious issue.

They said that in cases of severe weakness, the heart can enlarge, so let's do follow-up tests every six months.

I'm doing it consistently, but...

Your shortness of breath is becoming increasingly severe.

 

The echocardiogram shows nothing serious, but the mother involved is very distressed...

At the rural hospital... they said they couldn't provide treatment there and just told me to go to a larger hospital and get admitted, so it seems they refused to provide medical care.

I understand, though;;

 

The older sister just above... has had a very long nursing career at Severance, so Zhi's family finds it easy to consult her whenever something happens... Anyway, since they live separately, I think they were very surprised to hear those frightening words from the doctor alone in the countryside.

Come to where your children are.. after the consultation..

The appointments are fully booked, so this time we decided to try an exercise stress test for the first time along with the ultrasound. We scheduled them separately for next week, but I wonder if you can actually handle this test at your age. They say it involves attaching devices to your body and testing your breathing when you feel short of breath on a treadmill or similar equipment.

Yesterday and the day before, we kept walking together...

You're just looking for a place to sit here and there ^^;

Still... I think your condition is okay..

I am consistently walking and trying to stabilize my mind...

It's definitely better when you're alone.

He says he doesn't want to come up and live..

Since there is such a difference... my heart is shaken.

 

Take your medication regularly and apply the prescribed patch when you feel short of breath.

I wish you would just recover perfectly.

It's because of symptoms caused by aging..

It's bitter...

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    슈머니즘
    걱정이 많으시겠네요 시골병원에서는 혹시라도 무슨일이 있을까 겁이 나서 큰 병원 가시라고 미루는 거 같아요 
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      어디해보자
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      맞아요.. 이해가 가니.. 엄마한테 섭섭해하지마시라고 말하네요ㅎ
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    송송
    시골병원에서 보다 무슨일생기면 병원도 환자도 안좋으니 능력밖이라 생각해 보내는거같아요
    일단 상황은 급박하게변할수도있으니 입원으로 검사 더해보심이 어떨지요
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      어디해보자
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      걱정에 예약땡겨서 초음파검사하면 항상 정상이거든요. 어르신이.. 조금만 마음급해하고하면 이게 심리적인지 더 헐떡이시는거같아요.. 그리고 그냥 작은일을 하셔도 몸이 많이 구부린 상태로 앉아 일하실때가 많으니 더 그러신거같아요..
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    칸쵸
    저희 친정엄마가 심장비대있으셔요;;
    큰병원 오래다녀도 엄마는 큰 효과 못보셨어요~
    약을 계속해서 바꾸드라구요  본인에게 맞는약으로요
    심장비대가 혈압약이랑도 관련이 있나보데요
    결국 가까운 내과서 엄마에게 맞는혈압약으로 찾아져서
    예전보다 좋아졌지만 완벽하게 낳은건 아닌거 같아요
    너무 힘드시면 병원은 꾸준히 다녀야 할듯하네요;
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      어디해보자
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      아 같은경우시군요.. 이야기나온후로 거리가 너무 멀지만 혼자 검진가라할수없어서 이 먼곳까지 그 전날이나 며칠전 도착해서 몇년간 진료보고있네요. 연세가 많다보니.. 어쩔수 없는거 같아요ㅜ 팔팔하게 계단 7~8층을 걸어다니신게 엇그제같은데 언제 이리 늙으신걸까요ㅠㅠ
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    케이스
    물론 가족이 있는 병원이 가장 좋지만요.
    저희 외할머니와 어머님도 심장이 안좋으세요.
    서울대 병원과 구로 고대병원 추천 드립니다.
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    강아림
    걱정이 정말로 많이 되실거 같아보이네요 큰병원에 
    가는게좋지요
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    강아림
    걱정이 너무 많이 되실 것 같아요. 입원을 해서 검사하는게 낫지 않나.요