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(Concern) Laziness

I'm in my late 40s.

I have been married for 17 years.

It's something I've been doing every day for 17 yearsโ€”housework, taking care of the kids, supporting my husband... Some days I just really don't want to do it. ๐Ÿ˜ข

Eating, cleaning, and caring for the children...

Give me some time. Since the children eat separately and I order food for the evening, I can only do it on weekends. On days I don't feel like it, I force myself to get ready and prepare. My husband tells me not to do what I don't want to, but I can't skip even a day, and if I delay, the house would be a mess, right? Haha

Is this menopause... or just annoyance... I'm still ๊ณ ๋ฏผํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ง€๊ธˆ๋„ ๋ฐฅ ๋ญํ•˜์ง€๋ฅผ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋„ค์š” ใ…œใ…œ

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    ์ด์นด๋ฃจ์Šค
    17๋…„์ฐจ์ด๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์„๊ฑฐ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”ย 
    ์ „ 7๋…„ ์ฐจ์ธ๋ฐ๋„ ๋ฒŒ์จ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์‹œ๊ธฐ์ด๋„ค์š”ย 
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      ์ •๋งˆ๋‹ด
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      ๋…„์ฐจ์ˆ˜์— ์ƒ๊ด€์—†๋Š”๊ฑด๊ฐ€๋ด์š”^^
      ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋“  ์˜ฌ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ท€์ฐจ๋‹ˆ์ฆ˜~~
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    ๋ฟ…๋ฟ…๋ฟ…
    ์ „ 13๋…„์ฐจ..์‹ ๋ž‘์ด ๋ง๋งŒ์ž˜๋“ค์œผ๋ฉด ํž˜๋‚˜์„œ ํ•ด์ค„์ˆ˜์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
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      ใ…‹ใ…‹ใ…‹ ์‹ ๋ž‘๋ถ„ ๋ง ์ž˜๋“ค์์‹œ๋‹ค~~
      ๊ฐ™์ด ํž˜๋‚ด์š”~
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    ์ €๋„ ์š”์ฆ˜ ์ž๊พธ ๊ฒŒ์„๋Ÿฌ์ง€๋„ค์š”.ย  ๋Œ์ด์ผœ๋ณด๋ฉด ์• ๋“ค ์–ด๋ฆฐ๋•Œ๊ฐ€ ์ ค ๋ถ€์ง€๋Ÿฐํ–ˆ๋˜๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”
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      ๋งž์•„์š”~์• ๋“ค ์œ ์น˜์›๊ฐ€๊ณ  ํ•™๊ต๊ฐ€๋‹ˆ ์ ์  ๋‚ด์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ์ข€ ์ƒ๊ธฐ๋Š”๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ..ํ–ˆ๋„ค์š”~
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    ๋ฏผ๊ฒฝ์ด
    ์ €๋„ 17๋…„์ฐจ์—์š” ์ ์  ์•„์ด๋“ค๋„ ์ปค์ง€๋‹ˆ ๊ท€์ฐฎ๋‹ˆ์ฆ˜์ด ์ปค์ง€๋„ค์š”ย  ์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์ปธ๋Š”๋ฐ๋„ ์†์ด ๋งŽ์ด๊ฐ€๋Š” ์Šคํƒ€์ผ์ด๋ผ ์•„์ง๋„ ํž˜๋“œ๋„ค์š”ใ… 
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      ์† ๋งŽ์ด ์—„์ฒญ๊ฐ€์š” ใ…œใ…œ
      ๋‘˜๋‹ค ์ค‘๋”ฉ์ธ๋ฐ ๋‹ˆ๋“ค์€ 5์‚ด ์–ด๋ฆฐ์ด๋ƒ๊ณ  ์ข…์ข… ๋ฌผ์–ด์š”~
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    ํ‹ฐ๋Œ๋ชจ์•„๊นจ๋ณถ์ž
    ใ…‹ใ…‹ใ…‹ ๊ท€์ฐจ๋‹ˆ์ฆ˜์€... ์ €๋„ ๋Š˜ ๊ทธ๋ž˜์—ฌ.. ์•„์นจ ๊ฒจ์šฐ ๋Œ€์ถฉ ํ•ด๋จน๊ณ  ์ ์‹ฌ์€ ๋จธ ๋จน์ง€.. ์ €๋…์€ ๋จธ ๋จน์ง€.. ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ํ•˜๋ฃจ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š”๊ฑฐ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”..
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      ์ง€๊ธˆ๋„ ์ €๋…๋ญํ• ๊นŒ ์˜ค๋Š˜์€ ๋ญ ํ•ด๋จน์ด์ง€...
      ๊ณ ๋ฏผ์ค‘์ด๋„ค์š”~
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    ์ €์Šคํ‹ด
    ์ผ์ƒ์— ์ง€์น˜์…จ๊ตฐ์š”
    ์—ฌํ–‰ ํ•œ๋ฒˆ ๋‹ค๋…€์˜ค์„ธ์š”ย 
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      ์ •๋งˆ๋‹ด
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      ๊ฐ€๊ณ ์‹ถ์–ด์š”~~์ง๋„ ์ž˜ ์‹ธ๋Š”๋ฐ~
      ์• ๋“ค์ด ์ค‘๋”ฉ๋˜๋‹ˆ ์–ด๋ ต๋„ค์š”~
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    ๋งค์ผ ํ•ด์˜ค๋˜ ์ผ์ธ๋ฐ๋„ ์Šฌ๋Ÿผํ”„๊ฐ€ ์˜ฌ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.
    ๊ธฐ๋ถ„ ์ข‹๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ํ–‰๋ณตํ•œ ์ผ์„ ๋งŒ๋“œ์‹œ๋ฉด ์ข‹์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”
    ย 
    ย 
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      ๋Š˜์–ด์ง€์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ ค ์šด๋™๋„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ •์‹ ์ฐจ๋ ค๋„ ์™ธ์ณ๋ณด๋„ค์š”~
      ๊ท€์ฐจ๋‹ˆ์ฆ˜ ๋Šช์—๋น ์ง ๋ชป๋‚˜์˜ฌ์ˆ˜๋„..ใ…Žใ…Ž
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    ์„ค์†ก
    ์ผ์ฐ๋ถ€์„œ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ด์„œ ์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆํ•˜์…จ๋„ค์š”.
    ๋ฌธ๋“ ํšŒ์˜๊ฐ์ด ๋“ค๋•Œ๋„ ๋˜์—ˆ๋„ค์š”. ์ž˜ ์ด๊ฒจ๋‚ด์„ธ์š”.
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      ๋–จ์ณ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๋ ค ๋” ๋ถ€์ง€๋Ÿฐ์„ ๋–จ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋„ค์š”~
      ํ™งํŒ…ํ•ด๋ด…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค~
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    ๊น€์˜๋™
    ๊ฐฑ๋…„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์˜จ๊ฑฐ ๊ฐ™์•„์š” ๊ท€์ฐจ๋‹ˆ์ฆ˜์˜ ์‹œ์ž‘์ด์ฃ  ๊พธ์ค€ํžˆ ๋ฒ„ํ…จ๋ณด์•„์š”
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      ์•„์ง ๊ฐฑ๋…„๊ธฐ๋Š”..ใ…œใ…œ ์Šฌํ”„๋„ค์š”
      ๊ฐฑ๋…„๊ธฐ ๋‹จ์–ด๋งŒ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์Šฌํผ์š”..
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      ๋ฏผํ† 
      ๋ฒ„ํ‹ฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ๋ง๊ณ  ์‹ ๋ฐ•ํ•œ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ์ฑ…์ด ์ข€ ๋‚˜์™”์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹๊ฒ ์–ด์š”ย 
      ๊ทธ๋ž˜์•ผ ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๋ง›์ด ๋‚˜์ง€์š”!
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    highway032
    ํ˜ผ์ž๋งŒ์˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ํ•„์š”ํ•œ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š” ์ „ ํœด์ผ์— ์žฌ์ถฉ์ „ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ด์š”~~
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      ํ˜ผ์ž๋Š” ๋ชป๋…ธ๋Š” ์Šคํƒˆ์ธ์ง€๋ผ~~
      ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์ด๋ž‘ ์ˆ˜๋‹ค ๋–จ์–ด๋ณด๋ ค๊ณ ์š”~
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    BH
    ๊ฐฑ๋…„๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚˜์„œ๋„ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์œผ๋กœ์„œ ์ง€์น˜์‹ค๋งŒ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”ใ…œใ…œ
    ๊ฐ€์ •๋„ ๊ฐ€์ •์ด์ง€๋งŒ ํ˜ผ์ž๋งŒ์˜ ์‹œ๊ฐ„๋„ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
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      ์ •๋งˆ๋‹ด
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      ์„ธ๋‚จ์ž๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚˜ ํ™€๊ฐ€๋ถ„ํ•ด์ง€๊ณ  ์‹ถ๊ธดํ•ด์š”~
      ๊ฐ€๋”์€ ๋ฌด๊ฑฐ์›Œ์š” ใ…‹ใ…‹
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    ๋ฏผํ† 
    ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ๋•Œ ๋‚จํŽธ๊ป˜์„œ ๋„์™€์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด ๋”ฑ์ผ ํ…๋ฐ์š”!ย 
    ์™œ ์ง‘์•ˆ์ผ์€ ์—ฌ์„ฑ์ด ๋‹ค ํ•ด์•ผํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑธ๊นŒ์š”!
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    homi
    ๋ฌด๊ธฐ๋ ฅํ•œ ๋งˆ์Œ ํšŒ์˜์ ์ธ ๋งˆ์Œ๋„ย 
    ๊ฒŒ์œผ๋ฆ„์˜ ์ผ์ข…์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•ด์š”
    ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋‹ค์‹œ ํž˜์„ ๋‚ด์„œ ๋งˆ์Œ์„ ๋‹ค ์žก์•„ ๋ณด์•„์š”
    ย 
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    ๋ฏผํŠธ๋ฏผํŠธ์ดˆ์ฝ”์นฉ
    ์ง„์งœ ๋งค์ผ ํ•˜๋˜์ผ ํ•˜๊ธฐย 
    ์‹ซ์–ด์ง€๋Š” ๋‚  ๋งŽ์•„์š” ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋‚ ์€ ๊ณผ๊ฐํžˆ ๋†“์œผ์„ธ์š”
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    ํ™ฉ๋ฏผ์ˆ˜
    143.์กฐ๊ธˆ์€ ๊ณผ๊ฐํ•ด์งˆ ํ•„์š”๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด๋ณด์—ฌ์š”
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    ์ง€๋ฏธ๋‹ˆํ–ฅ๊ธฐ
    ๋ฐ˜๋ณต๋˜๋Š” ์ผ์ƒ์— ์ง€์น˜์‹ ๊ฑฐ๊ฐ™์•„์š”ใ…œใ…œ
    ๊ท€์ฐจ๋‹ˆ์ฆ˜ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•˜๋Š”๊ฒŒ ์ฐธ ์–ด๋ ต์ฃ ย 
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    ์ฑ„์•„๋ฏธ
    17๋…„์ด๋‚˜ ๊ฐ€์กฑ๋“ค์„ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•ด์˜ค์…จ์œผ๋‹ˆ ํ•œ๋ฒˆ์ฏค ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ์‹œ๊ธฐ๋„ ์˜ฌ๊บผ๊ฐ™์•„์š”
    ๊ทธ๋•Œ๋Š” ๋˜ ํž๋งํ• ์ˆ˜์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์•„๋ณด์„ธ์š”
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    ์ž„โ˜…์„ 
    ์ง„์งœ ์ง‘์•ˆ์ผ์€ ํ•ด๋„ ํ•ด๋„ ๋๋„ ์—†๊ตฌ์š”ย  ย ์•ˆ ํ•˜๋ฉด ์—„์ฒญ ํ‹ฐ๋‚˜์š”.. ๋‚จ์ž๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋‘๋ผ๋Š” ๋ฐ.. ๋ˆˆ์— ๋ณด๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์•ˆ ๋˜๋‹ˆ๊นŒ์š”...ย