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Stop talking about living expenses...ㅠㅠ

14th year of marriage...

I don't really have any complaints about my in-laws' house... I participate in almost all the family matters and I like it...

My parents-in-law... my relatives on my husband's side... I like them all. I'm not really the type to get stressed easily, so I just take it all in stride and go along happily.

Just say what you think isn't right...

My father retired due to reaching the retirement age...

You had everything ready to move to the countryside... and then the house prices suddenly skyrocketed, right??? You thought they might go up even more, so you hesitated a little longer, just a little more.

This is a complete fall to the bottom...

So, for now, you can't go down to the countryside and just stay here...

It might feel a bit strange for someone who has always been working to be at home..

So, about elderly jobs? I told you to look into things like trash picking that only take two or three hours a day, but you didn't do it...

My mother-in-law is still working.

The main point is... I was explaining my father's bank certificate, and while doing so, I was also showing him Toss.

Every time, my living expenses keep running out gradually...

I think this is already the fourth time I've listened...

This... I feel sorry, and I also wonder if you're asking for money??ㅡㅡ

I don't think we're in a position to give you living expenses, as we're not quite there yet and not quite comfortable enough.

My mom is also alone and having a hard time, so she's just doing whatever she can as things come up.

They really don't want to be a burden to their children later, so they even get multiple insurance policies and are very self-reliant!!!

On the other hand, my in-laws' household has no decent insurance...ㅡㅡ

We also have a single income, so we only give pocket money to both sides on special occasions.

It seems that living expenses are still a bit too much for now...

Sigh... Why do I have to tell my son and not my daughter-in-law... I keep feeling uncomfortable...ㅡㅡ

I just don't say anything when that happens.

Sigh... My husband was thinking of giving some living expenses to both families, but I said no!!!

My child is still in elementary school, and we're already spending a lot on private lessons... I don't think it's the right time yet... Especially with the loan we have.ㅡㅡ

Usually, we just do better ourselves, buy things for them, and occasionally give them some pocket money.

Ah~~~~~~~~ I really want to win first place in the lottery.. haha

 

 

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    꿈굽는사람
    아이고 많이 힘드시겠어요
    힘내세요
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      많이 힘들다는게 아니고...
      그냥 그런 말씀을 안하셨음 해서요..ㅎㅎ
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    정마담
    여유있는 경제력이 아니라면 생활비 드리기 쉽지 않죠.
    저도 못드려요 ㅜㅜ
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      ㅁ맞아요. 여유 있는 경제력이 아니라서..ㅠㅠ
      외벌이라 더 그렇구요..
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    에ㅐ구 스트레스 받고 힘드시겠어요 증말 ㅜㅜ
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      스트레스...까진 아닌데 자꾸 그런말씀 하시면 짜증날꺼 같아요..ㅠㅠ
      난 시댁 다 좋은데.ㅡㅡ"
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    쫑이
    많이 힘드시겠어요
    갈수록 교육비 장난아니죠
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      영어 학원 추가 됐다고 와!!!ㅎㅎ
      외식을 줄여야 해요..ㅎㅎ
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    지폐메이커
    저 로또 1등 되면 예금으로 다 돌리고
    제 딸들 아파트 미리 사주고
    
    이자 받으며 승진 욕심 버리고 살고파요
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      ㅎㅎㅎㅎ 1등 생각만 해도 너무 기분이 좋네요...ㅎㅎ
      뭘 할지는 다 구상해놨는데 영~~~ 5등도 안되네요..ㅠㅠ
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    생활비 받고 싶으신 듯
    고생이 많네요
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      ㅂ받고 싶어 하시는걸까요..
      뻔히 외벌이인거 아는데...참...
      우리선에서만 여유지 누굴 도와줄 형편은 아직 아닌데..ㅠㅠ
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    그맘 뭔지 너무 잘 알아요 ㅠㅠ 저희 시부모님도 자주 말씀하시네요
    자꾸 듣고도 모른척 하니 나중엔 그냥 요구하시더라구요
    너희만 잘살면 우리는 아무래도 상관없다.. 하시면서
    늘 말 따로 행동 따로 ㅠㅠ
    실제로 재산은 시부모님이 저희보다 훨 많은데
    부동산에 묶여서 당장의 생활비는 마이너스 통장을 쓰시니
    이게 무슨 상황인가 싶어요 ;; 참네..
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      ㄸ똑같은 상황인데.. 
      말따로 행동 따로는 여태껏 그러신적은 없었는데..
      아버님이 은행 잔고같이 볼때마다 그러시네요...ㅎㅎ
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    생활비 드리기 부담이지요 ㅜ.ㅜ
    
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      한번드리면 계속 드려야할꺼같아서 엄청 생각이 많아져요
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    저도 제발 로또 1등 ㅠㅠ
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      ㅎㅎ 로또는 안사면서 매번 1등만 바라고 있어요ㅎㅎ 
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      전 일할준비가 안되어있어서ㅡㅜ
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     힘드시겠어요
     왜 그런데 아들에겐  말안하고 며느리에만....
     나라에서 주는  연금도 있지 않으신가요?
     저의 매달 드리지만 드릴때마다 고마운데 아니라 당연하듯 하는거 
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    어떤 의미로 자꾸 얘기하시는건지 
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