My girlfriend seems to have ADHD...

My girlfriend seems to have ADHD...

Because I think my girlfriend might have ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). Some characteristics that appear in our daily life with her have led me to consider ADHD, and I would like to seek your advice.

My girlfriend often loses track of the topic and gets lost in other thoughts during conversations. Even when discussing important matters, she suddenly switches to a different topic or seems not to be listening to me. This lack of focus seems to cause her difficulties in daily life as well.

She often acts impulsively. She frequently suggests doing something suddenly without planning or makes spontaneous decisions without thinking. While these behaviors can sometimes be amusing, I worry when this impulsiveness appears in important decisions.

It is also noticeable that they have difficulty managing their time. I often see them forget appointment times or struggle to keep them. Especially on days with important appointments, they often arrive late or appear unprepared.

My girlfriend's room is never tidy. Items are scattered everywhere, and she often can't find what she needs when she needs it. It seems to cause her some stress.

She tends to have intense emotional fluctuations. She often gets very excited over small things or, conversely, becomes very discouraged over minor issues. These changes in her emotions sometimes surprise me. That's why I started to think she might have ADHD.

I can't be certain whether my girlfriend has ADHD or if these behaviors are due to other reasons, but it is clear that she is struggling. I want to help her and hope that our relationship can become healthier and happier.