The regular magic suddenly skipped a month.. Menopause? Severe cold side effects? What could it be?

28-32 days, up to about 36 days if longer

I have lived continuously with a 28-32 day cycle since I was 13 years old in sixth grade, and now I am 45.

Relatively accurate without ever skipping a beat

Within an error margin of about 2-3 days.

 

There was a time when I experienced a miracle after just 15 days due to extreme stress, but apart from that, I have never deviated significantly from my cycle; it has been regular.

After having two children and breastfeeding for about 10 months, it starts again after about a month, following a nearly perfect cycle...

 

On the second day of the transfer, it's really busy, and it decreases from the third day, lasting about a week...

After giving birth to my second child, as I mentioned in my previous concern, the suturing after the second cesarean section was not fully completed, resulting in a hollowed-out area inside the uterus where blood collects. It drips out gradually for about a week.

At the time I raised that concern, I didn't know when menopause would come, and I was bleeding for nearly two weeks, unsure whether to have another surgery or not...

 

Two months ago, I felt like the flow was a bit lighter during my period, but suddenly I skipped last month and started again...

Recently, I caught a cold and my body hurts... Although the COVID test came back negative,

Some people have experienced changes in their menstrual cycle after contracting COVID-19, so I wondered if my cold that lasted over three weeks might have been COVID-19. Suddenly, I became fixated on menopause... 😱😱😱

 

Looking into menopause, the symptoms decrease in intensity, periods become skipped or irregular, and eventually they stop altogether...

But I still think I'm young...

I think my mom went through menopause about ten years after I did...

 

Honestly, the magic period was very difficult, and because of improper postpartum care after the cesarean section, I had some bleeding that lasted about a week longer, which I disliked... I wouldn't be particularly sad about menopause coming, but just...

I feel sad because I think I have aged too quickly...

 

The children are still young...

If menopause occurs at forty-five and menopause symptoms appear...

While others sing about the hundred-year lifespan, I feel like mine ends in the fifties. Sigh...

 

Is there a way to tell if it's menopause or just a temporary hormonal change?

I'm considering whether I should visit the obstetrics and gynecology department...

 

I wanted to overcome cancer bravely and stay healthy to be with my children for a long time as a good mom, but if I age so rapidly like this, I think I will feel very depressed. 😭😭😭