When we are young, it is natural to spend time with friends and build friendships, but as we get older, forming and maintaining meaningful relationships becomes increasingly difficult. However, we are always placed in situations where we form new relationships.

 

Relationships do not deepen over time automatically; we must actively work to build them. How can we establish more meaningful connections with others? This summary is based on advice from relationship experts published in the American psychology magazine 'Psychology Today.'

 

1. Welcomes with the energy as if meeting a close friend

The moment you meet someone for the first time is very important in shaping the atmosphere of the relationship. Imagine someone approaching you with a warm smile and a friendly demeanor when they meet you. Starting a meeting in such a positive atmosphere creates a positive impression from the beginning and lays a good foundation for future relationships. It is an action that can yield great results with a small effort.

 

2. Recognize the other person's unique abilities

 

It is also important to recognize the strengths or unique abilities of the people you meet. When you try to see the other person's strengths, they will also feel your effort. By recognizing and acknowledging the good qualities and unique aspects of those around you, you can build a positive relationship based on mutual respect and praise.

3. Believes in the power of play

 

There is a saying that you can learn more about someone through an hour of play than a year of conversation. This is why adding creativity and fun to relationships is beneficial. When playing, you can immerse yourself in the moment and naturally become closer. The positive psychological effects of play have also been revealed through various studies.

 

4. Asking meaningful questions

 

Good relationships are not simply formed overnight; they are gradually built through meaningful conversations. Engage in conversations where you share each other's interests, new experiences, and thoughts and feelings.

 

5. Express gratitude

 

Expressing gratitude is also a good way. Instead of just spending time together and then parting ways, try to express your appreciation for the good times shared. The memories of that day will become even more cherished, and you'll feel more inclined to build a deeper relationship in the future.

 

 

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Isn't human relationships the easiest and yet the most difficult thing?

The position of giving and the position of receiving

Because it can always be different...

 

Thanks are an expression

 

Our parents' generation is quite reserved when it comes to expressing themselves.

Especially, my father, haha, and my mother show a lot of affection.

My father is still very strict.

 

Things I like and things I dislike

Rather than vague or ambiguous expressions

It provides a clear expression.

We can maintain a close relationship, right?