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유아기는 현실과 상상의 세계를 확실히 구분하지 못하는 시기로, 아이 눈에 보이는 모든 것은 상상의 소재이며 재미있는 이야깃거리가 된다고 합니다.먼저 부모의 걱정과 불안을 내려놓고, 아이의 사소한 거짓말에 크게 동요하거나 마음쓰지 마세요.누군가를 속여 이익을 얻고자 하는 거짓말이 아닌, 지어낸 말이나 꾸며낸 말로 받아들이고 아이를 이해하고 잘 가르치는 부모님이 되실 수 있습니다!!
Should I say it's a lie...
For example, the child placed the blocks they made at kindergarten on the floor.
It seems like my friend was playing with that.
So, when our child asked for that, claiming it was theirs.
Oh, I didn't know it was yours. I was just playing with it because it was on the floor.
As a result of doing it
Our child went to another friend.
They said, "He took my stuff and said mean things."
The teacher is pretending not to know and listening.
Later, I asked my child, "Did that really friend say something bad to you?"
At first, they said that, but when pressed further, they said they couldn't remember...
Sometimes that kind of thing happened even at home.
When my dad comes to me with actions he didn't do
There have been quite a few times when I exaggerated or made things up.
Why does this happen? How should I train them...
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