✏️사춘기 아이 고민에 대해서..

✏️사춘기 아이 고민에 대해서..

 

I also have a teenage daughter.

I also have many worries.

 

My older child is a boy and has a personality that doesn't show much openly, so I don't remember much about him. In fact, it's more like those kinds of kids, when they grow up and reach this stage, sometimes clash with me once in a while.

I think I became more stable after leaving home and experiencing independence unintentionally while serving in the military.

 

But girls are a bit different; their sensitivity develops even more than boys, and they change drastically during puberty.

 

What you need to know at this time is...

It means that a sense of self and self-esteem has developed.

To a teenage child in this state

You are wrong about this, it's different... Back in my day...

Absolutely not if you say something like that!

 

The child has established their values and will develop them on their own.

Think about the reasons behind the child's actions, and as a parent, stand on that side to find reasons to praise, praise them, understand them, and approach with that attitude.

 

Think about it.

I don't need it anymore. The times have changed rapidly.

Now, you should try to learn from the child and do what the child wants.

The wrong path is the right path; it's the old path we used to know.

No, it's not.

My child is the center of their own world.

 

The era has changed, and children are new beings.

Parents should set an example by always making an effort first, and even if children are clumsy, praising and encouraging them is more beneficial.

 

I think the most important thing is to be attentive to each other, read the situation, and adjust your mood accordingly.

 

If your heart is 100 percent, give only 50 percent of your attention^^ You should give me 50 percent of your attention.