Relationship with the in-laws

A certain acquaintance has such a good relationship with their in-laws that they sometimes stay at their in-laws' house during holidays and don't visit their own parents.

I've had a bad relationship with my sister-in-law even before I got married, and although we reconciled, we still avoid each other and keep a distance.

The in-laws also only support my sister-in-law and turn away from me, especially my father-in-law, who was very biased. He passed away a year ago, so that's why.

My mother-in-law also does things her own way, so I was really hurt emotionally.

It's been nearly 15 years since I got married, but my mother-in-law has remained the same, so I've come to accept it as it is.

I fought a lot because of my in-laws.

When we visited my in-laws' house and my sister-in-law saw how much we loved our own child, she became jealous of how much she liked our child, and for a while, my husband and I argued over it.

I just don't look at it, but every time I do, I just find it unimpressive.

Are you all getting along well?

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