I'm 고민 about marrying my boyfriend with Crohn's disease...

I'm 고민 about marrying my boyfriend with Crohn's disease...

I want to share my worries, so I am writing this. I am someone who is seriously considering marriage with my beloved boyfriend. However, my boyfriend has Crohn's disease, which makes me deeply 고민 about making such an important decision as marriage.

My boyfriend is really a good person. He always considers me and treats me with love, so I often imagine a future together with him. However, I am very worried because of the uncertainty caused by Crohn's disease. My boyfriend takes very good care of his health, but I feel heavy-hearted thinking that his health could worsen again at any time.

Especially after getting married, I am most worried that he may need to visit the hospital frequently and that there is a possibility his health could deteriorate in the long run. I also think there might be financial burdens and mental stress, which makes me unsure if I can handle this situation well.

But I also believe that with him, we can overcome any difficulty. Even if he is ill, he is still a precious person to me, and I think we can live well together by working hard. Thinking about that gives me renewed courage, but there are many practical concerns before making the big decision of marriage.